A time for myself is certainly one of the rarest gift on earth. A a married , working mother you tend to lose your own life . But I tend to make myself happy saying what I have gained is far ahead of what it would have been otherwise.Its tough when you mind is still young you desires your aches are all different and you tend to blend with time to your world which is thankless .Your spouce loves you and cares for you but he has his world as a parent with responsibilities , work , future howering around him .You cant a imagine a vacation without your family but your definitions dont match .My vacation is time for myself , talk , hugs, kisses and relate and his vacation would be a good drink , nice TV , planned outings . And my kids need not talk about it .How and when do they converge or do they ever .Is it that after marriage its tough to find time for yourself or even the twosome you would have started as ..Is it that after marriage our dreams are just ours , Once life starts in this pace when do we go back or look back to our life .... when do we feel happier !!! Or is it that we are happy but how to you define happier.
One suggestion would be everybody should have a definition of kick in their life. One activity which takes you to yourself. I need to find mine........... Do you have yours
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